Legendary WhitetailsWomen's Cottage Escape Flannel Shirt

If you had to rate the softness of this shirt on a scale of 1-10, what would you rate it as?

I am 5'2" and weigh 105 lbs. i think i need a small, but read some reveiws that it shrinks after washing. what size should i get?

Is this shirt made in China? Or where?

I am 5"9 and I was wondering if the flannel would be long enough to go my upper thigh or somewhere below the waist, (I wear a large and I am 156 lbs)